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Saturday, March 19, 2016
Tuesday, March 15, 2016
Birthday Questions & Reflections
Yup. It's that time of year again- my birthday. My mom teared up a bit when she looked at me smiling, and said, "26 years old". With that tone of, "holy shit you're growing up. You're an adult now! Where has my baby gone?"
Please don't remind me mother. I know I'm young, but I feel old (kind of).
I decided to reflect on my birthday, and ask myself some tough questions I haven't before.
where was I this time last year?
Oh god, memory please help me. (My memory isn't very good). March 2015 I had gone on a sushi date with my Husband, (We did the same thing this year). I was given an ice cream maker, and food dehydrator (woo! Exciting. Actually it was. I freakin' love that thing! It becomes an addiction too. You start looking for anything in your kitchen to dehydrate. Seriously).
I still had my old business then too. For those that don't know me well, I had a soap making business, and sold my soaps on Etsy. I also had some of my beauty products in an art gallery gift shop. The business obviously didn't last, but at that time I was pretty excited about it. (Retail- never again!!)
What would my 15 year old self think of me now?
"What the fuck are you wearing, you sellout!" That's probably what My 15 year old self would say to me now (ha!). Yeah, sorry younger me, the goth look isn't for me anymore.
"You're a tarot reader? That's pretty sweet!" Yes, younger me. 'Tis sweet and totally rad. Bet you never thought you'd catch the entrepreneur bug eh?
"You married a guy from... BRAZIL?!" Yes. That's a long (beautiful) story. Maybe I'll tell you about it over coffee sometime. Oh ya, the coffee thing never went away. Coffee everyday. Coffee coffee coffee!
Dear younger me,
This is probably where you never thought you'd end up, but I promise you it is exactly where you need to be. (Sorry, but that small town you hated with every fibre of your being? Well, you're gonna buy a house there. Trust me- the city sucks!) You are stronger than you think. You really can do amazing things, and you will. You don't have bad luck, so stop telling yourself that. All the bad shit that's happened will teach you so much, so try not to get down on yourself. It won't last forever. Please note: you have a stellar bod! Seriously, enjoy those magnificent boobs!
Know that you are loved, will be more loved, and are capable of showing more love. I encourage you to do that, even when it's difficult. Especially when it's most difficult.
PS. You will never get any taller. Sorry. (5'0" for life honey)
what do I want to accomplish this year?
A lot. Next question.
Okay, in more detail- what I want to accomplish is big. Bigger than I ever imagined. A business that allows me to spend more time with my family. A business that I love, and that can support me.
I want to at least start my yoga teacher training this year. I want to learn more about astrology. I want to buy a new couch, with the money I made myself from my business. I also want to get my full license. (Yep, I don't drive. It freaks me out).
how do I feel?
I feel young and old at the same time. Kind of confused. Twenty-six is still young, but inside I feel older. Yet sometimes, I feel like an overgrown teenager. I feel like I'm supposed to be an adult, and act like an adult, but sometimes I just feel like I'm faking it. "This is how I adult right?"
Otherwise I feel great! I'm probably the healthiest I've ever been, and for the first time in my life I really do like myself. I like the person I've become and I don't shy away from saying good things about myself.
what's been the best and worst thing this past year?
The best thing this past year was closing my old business. It felt like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Which ultimately made way for my current business- Tarot (which I love a whole lot more!) Last summer I also started my first vegetable garden, and that had been a big dream of mine. I was pretty successful with it, and I can't tell you how rewarding it is to grow your own food- simply incredible!
The worst thing that happened this past year? I actually can't think of anything. Sure there's some bumps here and there, but nothing serious. Do I have horseshoes up my ass? Maybe. If so, they can stay there.
what have I learned?
I've learned a lot! in 2015 I sat down and diligently, and religiously researched everything I could on Tarot, and taught myself the art of tarot reading. I'm still learning something everyday too. I've learned to be more focused on the present, as in what I'm able to do right now with that what I have. I've learned tons of new stuff about running a small business, and I'm super excited to pump things up to business 2.0!
I've learned to be more focused, centered, and calm.
My birthday tarot card
March 15 1990
3+1+5+1+9+9+0= 28
2+8= 10
1+0= 1
My Tarot Card is the Magician.
The Magician tells me I'm able to work my magic (I should work my magic) and manifest like a boss! I'm handy and resourceful. I have the tools I need, so I can "Macgyver" my way through any situation. I have the inner power create anything I desire. ("I've got the power!")
Please don't remind me mother. I know I'm young, but I feel old (kind of).
I decided to reflect on my birthday, and ask myself some tough questions I haven't before.
where was I this time last year?
Oh god, memory please help me. (My memory isn't very good). March 2015 I had gone on a sushi date with my Husband, (We did the same thing this year). I was given an ice cream maker, and food dehydrator (woo! Exciting. Actually it was. I freakin' love that thing! It becomes an addiction too. You start looking for anything in your kitchen to dehydrate. Seriously).
I still had my old business then too. For those that don't know me well, I had a soap making business, and sold my soaps on Etsy. I also had some of my beauty products in an art gallery gift shop. The business obviously didn't last, but at that time I was pretty excited about it. (Retail- never again!!)
What would my 15 year old self think of me now?
"What the fuck are you wearing, you sellout!" That's probably what My 15 year old self would say to me now (ha!). Yeah, sorry younger me, the goth look isn't for me anymore.
"You're a tarot reader? That's pretty sweet!" Yes, younger me. 'Tis sweet and totally rad. Bet you never thought you'd catch the entrepreneur bug eh?
"You married a guy from... BRAZIL?!" Yes. That's a long (beautiful) story. Maybe I'll tell you about it over coffee sometime. Oh ya, the coffee thing never went away. Coffee everyday. Coffee coffee coffee!
Dear younger me,
This is probably where you never thought you'd end up, but I promise you it is exactly where you need to be. (Sorry, but that small town you hated with every fibre of your being? Well, you're gonna buy a house there. Trust me- the city sucks!) You are stronger than you think. You really can do amazing things, and you will. You don't have bad luck, so stop telling yourself that. All the bad shit that's happened will teach you so much, so try not to get down on yourself. It won't last forever. Please note: you have a stellar bod! Seriously, enjoy those magnificent boobs!
Know that you are loved, will be more loved, and are capable of showing more love. I encourage you to do that, even when it's difficult. Especially when it's most difficult.
PS. You will never get any taller. Sorry. (5'0" for life honey)
what do I want to accomplish this year?
A lot. Next question.
Okay, in more detail- what I want to accomplish is big. Bigger than I ever imagined. A business that allows me to spend more time with my family. A business that I love, and that can support me.
I want to at least start my yoga teacher training this year. I want to learn more about astrology. I want to buy a new couch, with the money I made myself from my business. I also want to get my full license. (Yep, I don't drive. It freaks me out).
how do I feel?
I feel young and old at the same time. Kind of confused. Twenty-six is still young, but inside I feel older. Yet sometimes, I feel like an overgrown teenager. I feel like I'm supposed to be an adult, and act like an adult, but sometimes I just feel like I'm faking it. "This is how I adult right?"
Otherwise I feel great! I'm probably the healthiest I've ever been, and for the first time in my life I really do like myself. I like the person I've become and I don't shy away from saying good things about myself.
what's been the best and worst thing this past year?
The best thing this past year was closing my old business. It felt like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Which ultimately made way for my current business- Tarot (which I love a whole lot more!) Last summer I also started my first vegetable garden, and that had been a big dream of mine. I was pretty successful with it, and I can't tell you how rewarding it is to grow your own food- simply incredible!
The worst thing that happened this past year? I actually can't think of anything. Sure there's some bumps here and there, but nothing serious. Do I have horseshoes up my ass? Maybe. If so, they can stay there.
what have I learned?
I've learned a lot! in 2015 I sat down and diligently, and religiously researched everything I could on Tarot, and taught myself the art of tarot reading. I'm still learning something everyday too. I've learned to be more focused on the present, as in what I'm able to do right now with that what I have. I've learned tons of new stuff about running a small business, and I'm super excited to pump things up to business 2.0!
I've learned to be more focused, centered, and calm.
My birthday tarot card
March 15 1990
3+1+5+1+9+9+0= 28
2+8= 10
1+0= 1
My Tarot Card is the Magician.
The Magician tells me I'm able to work my magic (I should work my magic) and manifest like a boss! I'm handy and resourceful. I have the tools I need, so I can "Macgyver" my way through any situation. I have the inner power create anything I desire. ("I've got the power!")
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Monday, March 14, 2016
This Week in Tarot: Get the Creative Juices Flowing!
This week we have the wonderful Ace of Wands!
It's all about fire energy this week! Spring Equinox is happening this weekend (March 20th), So the Ace of Wands is lighting a fire under your hiney, letting you know now is the time to get moving and grooving baby! If you've been feeling tired, emotional, and reclusive- wash off the sleeping potion and reclaim your inner power (your inner fire!).
If there's a project, (especially a creative one) that you've been putting off, get started on it. Write the rough copy, sketch ideas, collect paint chips, etc. get the creative juices flowing with some inspiring ideas. The energy this week could make us feel overly zealous, and it's important not to set our sights too high. It's great to start new things, but remember to finish them as well.
Plant the seeds for tomorrow, but don't forget to water them occasionally.
You've got the power honey, #MakeItHappen
It's all about fire energy this week! Spring Equinox is happening this weekend (March 20th), So the Ace of Wands is lighting a fire under your hiney, letting you know now is the time to get moving and grooving baby! If you've been feeling tired, emotional, and reclusive- wash off the sleeping potion and reclaim your inner power (your inner fire!).
If there's a project, (especially a creative one) that you've been putting off, get started on it. Write the rough copy, sketch ideas, collect paint chips, etc. get the creative juices flowing with some inspiring ideas. The energy this week could make us feel overly zealous, and it's important not to set our sights too high. It's great to start new things, but remember to finish them as well.
Plant the seeds for tomorrow, but don't forget to water them occasionally.
You've got the power honey, #MakeItHappen
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Monday, March 7, 2016
This Week in Tarot: Feel What You Need to Feel
This week in Tarot, we have the 6 of cups reversed!
Astrologically, it's going to be an intense week for many of us. Emotionally, internally- intense!
We may be internalizing so much, we become out of sync with the people around us. We all have our own "baggage" that we'll be dealing with. Childhood trauma, or memories could come back to haunt us. Wounds from the past may break open, and remind us what wasn't fixed, will keep showing up until dealt with.
Imagine the past as a muddy puddle. It's perfectly okay to jump around in it. But only for a short time. Don't sit in it, and get get stuck in the mud.
What ever emotions, or thoughts come up this week- take note. Feel what you need to feel, and then move on. Let go. Grow. If a trusted friend, or loved one wants to be your shoulder to cry on, don't push them away. You don't need to fight every battle alone.
This is an excellent week for journaling, meditation, going to the spa, and taking extra good care of yourself (emotionally, mentally, and physically).
Astrologically, it's going to be an intense week for many of us. Emotionally, internally- intense!
We may be internalizing so much, we become out of sync with the people around us. We all have our own "baggage" that we'll be dealing with. Childhood trauma, or memories could come back to haunt us. Wounds from the past may break open, and remind us what wasn't fixed, will keep showing up until dealt with.
Imagine the past as a muddy puddle. It's perfectly okay to jump around in it. But only for a short time. Don't sit in it, and get get stuck in the mud.
What ever emotions, or thoughts come up this week- take note. Feel what you need to feel, and then move on. Let go. Grow. If a trusted friend, or loved one wants to be your shoulder to cry on, don't push them away. You don't need to fight every battle alone.
This is an excellent week for journaling, meditation, going to the spa, and taking extra good care of yourself (emotionally, mentally, and physically).
Need some help sorting through your thoughts and emotions? I'm all ears! Get a reading with me here
Monday, February 29, 2016
This Week in Tarot: Get Your Head in the Game
I was never really into sports as a kid. Although, I did play t-ball for a short time. But, I was much happier being an observer. When I pulled this card, I instantly thought of the movie, "A League of Their Own" (1992) with Tom Hanks. If you haven't seen it, I highly recommend it! I'm also not a sports movie fan. But, this one made it onto my favourites list!
This week we have the four of cups reversed.
After being the teams bench warmer for so long, it's now time to get in the game my friend! You're needed now (finally!) The days of sitting around contemplating life, (while life moves around you) is over. Stop kickin' the dirt around your feet and look up. You'll have a new outlook this week- a fresh perspective. You just need to look! Until you really look, you may not be aware of what's going on around you. What's the score? Who's up next? What's the game plan? Let's go rookie! Hustle, hustle, hustle!
If you can only open your eyes to the new game plan, you'd be hittin' the ground running. No more pouting around! Once you get back into the game, you won't be so damn bored anymore. Let someone else hand out water and towels okay? You've got some playing to do!
For you, this could mean speaking up at a meeting at work, finally sitting down and writing that blog post you weren't so sure about, getting back into your exercise routine (or trying a completely different one), finding the time to meditate (and then actually doing it!) This is your week to accomplish something. Set a goal, and go for it baby!
Need some ideas to get started with your "game plan"? Let's get the ball rolling with a tarot consultation.
Did you enjoy this post? Comment below, and let me know what your goal is for this week.
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Don't have a tarot deck? No problem! I will still give you a tarot card and prompt to work with!
"There's no crying in baseball!" Clip
Thursday, February 25, 2016
Creativity & Fear: Why You're Not Getting S*** Done!
Before the Virgo full moon on Monday the 22nd, I was procrastinating on a personal project of mine. I used to be the queen of starting projects but then never finishing them, and then completely avoiding them (I had a crown and everything. Ha!). But seriously, I started feeling guilty about it. I knew I needed to sit down at my computer and start typing. Just START already Hali!
It got me thinking- why do we do this to ourselves? I love what I do, and this project is no different. It started as a dream, then a rough sketch of ideas, and finally, I'm now seeing all the pieces come to together. It's exciting! I can't wait to launch it! So why am I avoiding it like an annoying old high school acquaintance at the grocery store?
Luckily, I have this amazing book called 'Art & Fear: Observations on the Perils (and Rewards) of Artmaking' By: David Bayles & Ted Orland. I can't remember for the life of me, where I found this little treasure, but I've had it for many years. When ever I feel uninspired, or like my passion project is getting tedious- I re-read the sections I've underlined in this book. They always make me see that there is indeed a little piece of fear inside of me spoiling the moment. What am I afraid of? (Something I need to look into!) After reading it, I found my mojo again, and began typing furiously. I pimped out my calendar, created some goals, AND deadlines (something I never do for myself). I'm on track. No more, "I'll just finish it tomorrow". NO! "I WILL finish it TODAY". No excuses.
On a side note: I've been watching the show, "Bar Rescue". I now always quote Jon Taffer (voice impression and all!) "I don't embrace excuses! I embrace solutions!" Amen Jon! Now I need a drink.
Feeling confused, or simply need an inspirational kick in the ass, I'm your woman! Let's dive into your problem together.
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It got me thinking- why do we do this to ourselves? I love what I do, and this project is no different. It started as a dream, then a rough sketch of ideas, and finally, I'm now seeing all the pieces come to together. It's exciting! I can't wait to launch it! So why am I avoiding it like an annoying old high school acquaintance at the grocery store?
Luckily, I have this amazing book called 'Art & Fear: Observations on the Perils (and Rewards) of Artmaking' By: David Bayles & Ted Orland. I can't remember for the life of me, where I found this little treasure, but I've had it for many years. When ever I feel uninspired, or like my passion project is getting tedious- I re-read the sections I've underlined in this book. They always make me see that there is indeed a little piece of fear inside of me spoiling the moment. What am I afraid of? (Something I need to look into!) After reading it, I found my mojo again, and began typing furiously. I pimped out my calendar, created some goals, AND deadlines (something I never do for myself). I'm on track. No more, "I'll just finish it tomorrow". NO! "I WILL finish it TODAY". No excuses.
On a side note: I've been watching the show, "Bar Rescue". I now always quote Jon Taffer (voice impression and all!) "I don't embrace excuses! I embrace solutions!" Amen Jon! Now I need a drink.
"You...cling to what you already know you can do- away from risk and exploration, and possibly further from the work of your heart. You find reasons to procrastinate, since to not work is to not make mistakes. ...To demand perfection is to deny your ordinary (and universal) humanity, as though you would be better off without it. Yet this humanity is the ultimate source of your work; your perfection denies you the very thing you need to get your work done."
-Art & Fear
Feeling confused, or simply need an inspirational kick in the ass, I'm your woman! Let's dive into your problem together.
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Monday, February 22, 2016
This Week in Tarot: The Hierophant & Tyler Durden Hanging Out
You need to find or create your own path from scratch. The answers you're looking for probably aren't going to be found outside of yourself. They most likely were within you the whole time. If there's a mentor, or guru you follow- you may want to take a break from following their every piece of advice, either for your own sake, or because they're really not all their cracked up to be! If you must ask a teacher/mentor for help- tread carefully. Their teachings could be to benefit themselves, not you.
You have your own path to follow, and that's what you need to focus on this week. You know yourself better than anyone else. Listen to your inner voice.
How can you think outside the box this week? Lets consult the tarot
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Spring equinox is right around the corner. I have a "spring cleaning" 7 day equinox tarot challenge! Don't have a tarot/oracle card deck? That's totally fine, because if you sign up you'll receive writing prompts and worksheets, along with a tarot card to work from in those 7 days.
Spring time is about rebirth- so let's rise like a phoenix from the ashes and start the new season fresh!
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